- HI GONJAMEDIA, Please keep it anonymous. So me and my friend met this lovely girl at a restaurant last year. The three of us got into a conversation, and we had a nice time together. We got to know she stays in the same town as my friend. We later parted ways with her without exchanging contacts.
A couple of days passed, and I realized all I could think of was her, so I told my friend that I thought I was falling for the girl, so he should look for her for me and send me her contact.
About a month passed, and my friend still kept on telling me he hadn’t met her yet. I wasn’t happy because I couldn’t find her. My friend was in four relationships at the time, but I wasn’t seeing anyone.
Six months later, I went to visit my friend, and surprisingly, I saw the girl with my friend in the same room. I was happy for moments as I spoke to her for a while and we exchanged contacts.
I later told her how I felt over a phone call, and she told me she felt the same way, but there’s a problem. She claimed she met my friend two days after the day we met and exchanged contacts.
She asked for mine from him, and he said he lost it. He later proposed to her, which she accepted since she wasn’t seeing anyone and they had been together since.
I was hurt and confronted my friend, and he said he was sorry for doing that because he didn’t think I was serious about her, so he went in to taste how she was. That broke me even more.
Our friendship dropped drastically, and I deleted their contact information. The girl is now back In my DM, she tells me she ended things with my friend the moment she realized he has multiple girlfriends, she can’t stop thinking about me either, and she really wants to be with me.
Despite how I feel about her, I told her she has dated my friend before, so I can’t go on with it. But here is the case: she is still insisting; I love her, and she also loves me. She has proven her love for me on countless occasions, so should I give in and be with her or just ignore her despite how we feel about each other? I really need your thoughts on this please.
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